If you have been following my journey, you know that I moved to Europe in March earlier this year.
And truthfully, I couldn’t have done that alone—either.
And, it doesn’t stop there …
As I reflect on 2024—I have been doing big (and hard) things all damn year—which I absolutely couldn’t have done alone.
Really, I am proud that I have navigated (and still am navigating) one of my most challenging, growth-oriented, and transformational years—coming out on top vs. being sucked down by the undertow (as my coach remarked.)
And, I didn’t do it alone! 💯
That’s right, this year …
👉🏻 I packed up my Santa Fe home with the help of friends.
👉🏻 I swiftly navigated an international, highly bureaucratic move across the pond with a mentor to lead me.
👉🏻 I started-up Leading with Love Coaching, LLC and more than doubled last year’s income with the guidance of my business coach.
👉🏻 I bought a home in a foreign country with a realtor and emotionally available friends and family.
👉🏻 I’m moving towards secure attachment with my long-distance Boo with our couples therapist.
👉🏻 And, I’ve been navigating peri-menopause with my 40+ yr. old sisters and my new holistic Brazilian OBGYN.
I have come to realize that accomplishing any kind of goal in life or biz requires support from someone who knows more than I do.
And that without their support, I very likely would not be where I am today: empowered, aligned, and successfully building my new life, business, relationship, and Self.
Because while I know a lot, and I have done many things on my own—I do not know everything, nor do I want to spend my time, energy, and resources trying to learn ’em.
How about you?
Do you value and get support for your goals—or are you more of a DIY-er?
Like, if you a small business owner ready to grow to your next level—do you try to figure it out on your own?\
And what about if you are designing a new course offering—do you try to figure it out on your own?
Or if you are wanting to change careers—do you try to figure it out on your own?
Maybe you said YES. (And that’s ok!
I mean, it’s what culture—and oftentimes our family systems teach us: “Don’t ask for help. Asking for help is weak. You can do it on your own.”
Truly, I have no doubt that you are a smart cookie and could absolutely do it on your own. I mean, you probably have done a LOT on your own already!
But the truth is, if you are ready to really break the ceiling on your next-level of growth, transform your current reality, and have your big dream goals realized—you ought not to do it alone.
Because—and I say this with so much love and respect—there is no way that you know everything it takes to make your goals happen. There is no way that you have the time to figure it out and also do everything else in your life and business
🤎 Having support from an expert frees up your time so that you can focus on what you are most gifted at.
🤎 Having support from a coach shortens your learning curve.
🤎 Having support from a mentor will save you from making mistakes and spending more money.
🤎 Having support from someone who gets you will make it more fun and less stressful.
I know it did for me!
If you have goals for 2025 and ready to take your business, career, and life to the next level—I invite you to let go of the belief that says you have to do it alone and welcome a more helpful thought that you can do it with support.
Will you?